Mr nice guy

He's a great bloke. shes such a nice person.
How do we judge such quality in ppl

I think these days a lot of relationships between colleagues/peers or ppl in general have become increasingly superficial
u put on the smiles...u crack jokes...u say hi every now and then
and we say he/she is a great person
but thats about it......

In reality, u can only tell how genuine ppl r when the pressures on
I do believe that most of ppl in the world r nice if they r in their comfort zone
cos deep down none of us wants to be the bad guy or be hated
but circumstances often test how strongly we hold true to such belief

u put on the smiles...u crack jokes...u say hi every now and then
but when s**t happens, u put ur interest first...take the easy way out...safe in ur comfort zone
Lots of us r like that...
However, those genuinely "nice" ppl go out of their ways to help others
My mum often says that we r all equally good and bad
The difference between individuals is how much of each we decide to act on

I felt at times, that I hadnt been very upset in a long time
but thats cos I live in a social group which ppl hav higher quality of life...ie in their comfort zone
so there are minimal conflicts... everybodys happy getting on with their lives
as u get older, uve got more responsibilties and expectations
thats when each of us are being pushed out of the comfort zone
and then......u can prove urself who u really r

A nice quote from a play back a couple of yrs:
Your mates or your morals: when the heat rises, what melts?

P.S. I dun think im nice...just in my comfort zone (most of the time)